The Full Shebang

Before we talk about a single detail, we talk about what actually matters: what this moment means to you, how you became you-and-them, and why you're better together. The Full Shebang begins with a proper, unhurried conversation — sometimes just the two of you, sometimes with the people who've watched your love up close — until we've found the truths worth building your whole ceremony around. Only then do I write it, hold every detail, and deliver it on the day.

This is the whole thing, held with care. You won't spend the run-up anxious about whether it'll feel right — because we'll have built it together, and you'll feel that in every word. On the day, you're not managing anything or wondering how it will come together. You're simply present, with the people you love, hearing your story told back to you exactly as it should be.

How we work together:

  1. 01

    HELLO

    A warm first conversation to swap stories and see if we're a match. No pressure, no pitch.

  2. 02

    REFLECTION

    The heart of it. We slow right down and explore what this moment really means: how you met, what shifted, why you're better together, what you want the room to feel.

  3. 03

    A WIDER VIEW

    I gently gather the perspective of the people who've witnessed your love — the stories and details you might never say about yourselves. (note, this is entirely optional. If the idea of this makes you uncomfortable, I always follow your lead.)

  4. 04

    THE WRITING

    I shape it all into a ceremony written entirely for you, then we refine it together until every word rings true.

  5. 05

    THE CALM

    We check-in to settle any nerves and quietly confirm the details, so nothing's left to chance. Where possible, we can meet to rehearse and walk through your ceremony in full so everyone is prepared as can be.

  6. 06

    THE DAY

    I arrive early, hold the room, and guide everyone through, while you stay fully in the moment.

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What's included

01

A ceremony built on meaning

Not a template with your names dropped in — yours is drawn from who you really are, and written to be felt.

02

A process that brings you closer

The reflective conversations at the heart of it leave many couples saying it's the most connected they felt in all of planning.

03

The people who know you, woven in

Where you'd like it, I gather the perspectives of those who've witnessed your love — the stories you might never tell about yourselves.

04

Words to keep

Your vows printed to hold and read aloud on the day, and a keepsake copy of your whole ceremony — yours to return to for years.

05

Every detail handled

I coordinate with your venue, musicians, florist and photographer, and sort the sound so every guest hears and feels part of it. You carry nothing.

06

My full attention

Only ever one wedding a day, so you have my calm, unhurried focus from first hello to final photo.

One fee, everything held

Not just a ceremony, but the calm of knowing every word and every detail is taken care of.

Investment

£1,200

Your fee covers the whole journey — the reflection, the writing, every meeting and refinement, all the planning and coordination, your printed vows and keepsake script, and the day itself. Travel within 50 miles of Bourne is included.

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